A lot of boys have argued with me because I simply state "You are not a man until proven otherwise, you are merely just a child in man's clothing."
My categories of maturity
Absolute Moron: The lowest of the lowest, your intelligence and common sense is so low that you actually think that the best ambition is shottin weed. You have no respect for anyone not even your mother and you don't even understand words like Audacity when you are 18. You are simply what it states an Absolute Moron.
The Child: Your mentality hasn't even developed into a boy, your not even childish in a fun way, your just a child, you believe you must be babied, don't know how to cook for yourself, clean for yourself, you don't even make your own bed. Your the boy who still thinks women should do everything for you even though you have nothing to offer and complain when you get girls that want everything you cant give.
The boy: Your the standard bunch, you dip in and out of the child and the real man, but your mainly in-between. Your intelligent but you lack common sense and individuality. Your mentality is based of what your friends do and you still believe that your reputation in the streets, school, college and uni is more important than anything else. You are the undisputed people pleaser, and you genuinely don't know who you are.
The Man: Being a man consists of being Who you want to be, not who your friends want you to be he is responsible, intelligent and has common sense, he is ambitious and refuses to be less than what he can be. He knows what his morals are and does not follow the crowd to fit in He stands out. A man is a leader not a follower and he works for what he never had, which means he believes in delayed gratification (which means not buying that gucci belt with your student loan so you can fit in. You have no swagger Your just a fool in a really expensive belt)
A man is everything and Nothing at the same time, he should know when to back down and when to stand up. He would know when to fight and when to walk away because his life is more valuable than his street Credibility.A man does not use the terms wifey, wifey season, link.
A real man Only talks to Real Woman.
Now a certain someone stayed up until 6 in the morning to debate about this with me and i must admit i got tired and gave in (I know be disappointed in me) BUT I have a comeback due to recent events at this place I call home.
You see I've noticed that boys seem to have this foolish pride factor and a desperate need to impress your so called friends, thus making you act like a fool, and have the same childish and predictable mentality of someone who is 15.
They claim there is no one else like them, yet i can see several clones of the same person, and this is cause you follow trends more than women follow fashion, you seem to have this fear of being different just because your "boys" ain't feeling it. * I find this to be COCKADODILE* what happened to "i don't care what no one thinks I am who I am"? All liars and pretenders.
The simple fact is that in the eyes of law are you classified a man, but in the eyes of an individual your still just a boy. Being a Man or a woman is based on your mentality not your age and lets face it no one actually acts the way their age dictates.
EXAMPLE: Me and a friend decided lets go to a drink up in one of our uni dorms, hadn't been there an hour before something popped of, Now I could've kinda maybe sorta understood if it popped of between first years... BUT THE CHEEK SECOND YEARS soo ages of 22-23 throwing fireworks at people, mainly first years....
Maybe I'm old fashioned but there is a serious error in this persons life?? what it wrong with you? but these are the same DICKHEADS who are so loud and proud to preach about being a man, but a real man wouldn't be trying to purposely hurt people, male and female.. Not only that but you had people hostage in a house, broke down their front door and dashed fireworks in the building!!!!
THEY even had the cheek to purposely set of the fire alarm so people would leave their rooms and get attacked by fireworks..
THAT SHIT IS DANGEROUS I honest to GOD do not comprehend the level of stupidity that must run through the brain of someone like that??? But yet again you preach manhood.
Mentality over age!
Girls haven't you had that one friend who went out with a 26 year old when they was like 18 (foolishness if you ask me) and he acts more like a bitch than someone your own age..
It all applies.
SO BOYS be a man and Grow UP take responsibility and stop getting on my nerves, it would be much appreciated =]
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